Short YouTube monologue advising listeners on whether to have serious conversations in person or by phone. The speaker emphasizes choosing the mode that makes you most comfortable, gives examples (disclosing an STI, breaking up), and warns about personal safety when ending relationships in private.
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Sandra said, do you save serious conversation in person or phone? Men these days want to stay on phone. Well, I don't care what they want. It's about what you want and what makes you most comfortable. It depends on the nature of the serious conversation. So, for example, if you want to talk about, let's say, the fact that you have an STI or right, then it's really about what makes you feel comfortable. If it's like, I want to break up with him, then I would suggest either doing it over the phone or doing it in public. Like in a. In person, but in a public place. You have to understand that it can be really dangerous to break up with a man in person if you're in a private place, because some of these men will lose their minds. Police departments have whole long file stacks of what they call crimes of passion, where a woman breaks up with a guy and then he breaks her face.
So I don't. I don't want you to be thinking about, like. Like where you should do it. I want you to be thinking about what's most comfortable for you, okay?