Transcript of a YouTube video by Anwar White addressing whether being overweight affects chances for a serious relationship. The speaker argues that preferences vary—some men prefer curvy/plus-size bodies—and offers practical advice for plus-size women on identifying suitable dating 'lanes' and places to meet compatible partners (e.g., gyms with bodybuilders). The tone is informal, direct, and humorous.
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All right, let me see. What, what are the questions, honey? Okay. Sophie said, does being overweight affect chances for a serious relationship? I think, you know, we've got to be honest here. For some men, yes. I think most of the time, men actually prefer curvy.
If you look at the covers of men's magazines and women's magazines, they're completely different. Cosmo and Vogue got the girls that look like toothpicks.
And those men magazines got the curve. So I'm not saying, like, I don't want you to lose weight, but if I want to make sure that you are curvy, if you are bigger, plus size. The thing is you just got to know your lane. And the lane is that.
There are people that like you and love you, and they're also those same people that are not going to be good for you. So the guys that aren't good for you if you're a plus size woman, obviously married guys, but they will try you. The military guys, they will go to war on you. The Jamaican guys are crazy and liars. Yeah.
All else, you've got a prop for every body size and dick size. Girl, you got to. Honey, it's called representation matters.
If my girls are plus size, I'm always like, girl, tall, lanky, gamer.
That's, that's, that's it, honey. That's your lane. Or the bodybuilders.
Some of the girls are like, anwar, why are you telling me to go to the gym? Because that's where the bodybuilders are. Don't lose not one pound, girl. Not one, not one iota of a pound. You start going to those, those, not the cute, you know, Equinox gyms. Go to the Planet Fitness girl.
And get you a bodybuilder. Go to those bodybuilder events, girl, and.
Just walk around.
Someone said, I feel like they'd suffocate me. No, ma'. Am, Honey, they're gonna, they're gonna do sets with you, if you know what I mean.
