A coach and host discuss why people struggle to receive romantic love. They walk through a real case: a Toronto lawyer preparing for an exclusivity conversation. The obstacle isn't a personal defect but learned beliefs that block you from accepting love in the first place.
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What I'm here to tell you is that there is a love out there that is a 9 or a 10. But you're going to have to do the work to find that love. I actually was on the phone call. I was on a session with my client last night. She's a. She's a lawyer in Toronto and she is going through the same exact situation where she has found the greatest guy that she's ever been with and they're going to get in an exclusive relationship next week. We actually went through exactly how to have that exclusivity conversation. I have a. Like a worksheet and exercise to help you actually lay out what you need to talk about and how to talk about that. So that's what I did with her last night.
Her mind is blown.
She is overwhelmed with the fact that she has met this amazing guy that gets her and she gets him, and he is showing up for her in ways that no man has ever done before. Right.
And the thing that she always continued.
To tell me throughout our sessions was.
That there's something wrong with me.
If I was good, if I was normal, if I was okay, I would.
Have been married by now. That's not what this is about. I want you to understand that nothing is wrong with you.
What is happening and what is going on is that you've been programmed in a certain way that is preventing you from finding love.