Does Your Capacity to Be Loved Have an Upper Limit Pt.8

Anwar White explores how scarcity mindset and feeling 'not enough' sabotage your dating life. She reframes dating as collaborative rather than competitive, and invites women to apply for her group program, which covers personalized dating strategies and inner work to prepare you for healthier relationships.
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We have this scarcity, love and dating mindset. It's almost like this perpetual cycle. So oftentimes we won't put ourselves in this love game because we are scared that being in this game will actually highlight the thing that we're most scared of, which is this interesting concept that we've created for yourself about not being enough. If he doesn't text me back, if he doesn't call me, if he doesn't ask me out, then it is proof that I'm not enough. Right? That's not what this is about at all. But our minds will make us think that, and that's why this scarcity and love mindset will kill you every single time.
I'm sure it's really scary to feel like it's you against this dating world and you're all alone in this ocean instead of being on this yacht with amazing women drinking champagne and dancing to your favorite song. That's what this group program feels like. It doesn't feel like you in the middle of the ocean, swimming and treading water. So if that is an experience that you're looking for, if that's what you want, if that's what you yearn for, to have fun while you're dating, and to heal and do a little bit of work as well.
I want to encourage you to apply to my program, and the first step of that is booking a consultation call with me. The women that I work with are generally from ages 30 to 50, 55.
So there are all kinds of women from all around the world that are doing the damn thing. And it's so exciting. It's so awesome to see. And I get emotional just thinking about this, because it's a true game changer. Right? I'm so glad that you asked this question because like I was saying earlier in this live, so many women are saying to me, well, I'm this age, and you'd be surprised. I have women that are 30, 31, saying, I'm too old. I have women saying that are 50, 55, saying, I'm too old. It's a mindset.
Right? It's a mindset.
And we have to actually.
Level up from that. That's what this is about. I want you to know and understand that the women that I work with are amazing, and they come from all walks of life. Black, white, Asian, Hispanic, native.
All ages, all regions focus on one thing.
Leveling up their love life, like how all of the other parts of their lives are leveled up. That's what we're focused on here.
Every woman is different. And every woman requires her own dating strategy. That's the personalization of the actual group program.
It's not this, like, cookie cutter, like, everyone has the same dating profile and things like that, and everyone's going to the same kinds of events. No, it's gonna be very different.
And I have clients in Miami. I have clients in New York. I have clients in la. I have clients in Toronto and Montreal. I have clients in Asia and Europe.
Different things to do, different places to meet men. Every person has a different hobby and passion. Right. All of that. But that's part of the program as well, right? That comes with the dating strategy, which is something that we focus on in the first module so that you can get your legs when it comes to this dating thing. So we get the dating strategy in place, then we start getting the inner work and doing the work so that you can become the woman that's ready for the best and healthiest relationship of your life, okay?
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