A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) giving dating advice to women: that if they find men "not doing enough" it's often because they're doing too much—so they should step back, avoid initiating contact (texts/calls) for at least three days, and allow men to pursue to reveal genuine interest.
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Hey, girl. If you are constantly engaging with men who are not doing enough in dating, I want to offer to you that you're probably doing way too goddamn much when it comes to dating. Because for him not to do enough means that you're comparing it to what you're doing. So here's what I want to offer to you, and here's what I think will make dating much easier for you. I want you to step back. I want you to not do anything. I know it sounds crazy because we have all of this trauma and we're always in a const. Like search and chase, because oftentimes we're chasing our father's love. I want you to stop, and I don't want you to do anything. I don't want you to initiate any texts. I don't want you to initiate any phone calls until after day three. If he's not reaching out and pursuing you because that's what men are hardwired to do, then he's not into it and he's not the one. So we move on, and we focus on the people that are going to show up for you. We want to focus on men showing up for us first, and then we can figure out if they're a match later. Follow from.
