Anwar White argues women should approach dating with the same deliberate strategy they use for careers and parenting. Without a clear process from first conversation to exclusivity, women lose control. She says women lead relationships and must set the pace and emotional depth.
It's a great way to be in full control of your dating process. This is where the strategy part comes in. There are so many women out there that don't have a strategy when it comes to dating. Do you have a strategy for dating? Let me know. Do you have a process from going from first conversation to first date or first date to exclusive relationship? Do you have a thing that you do each and every time to help you evaluate, vet, filter men? If not, if not, Girl, what are we doing? Girl, I want you to take a step back for a second and think about what you do professionally. Right? You may be a teacher or a nurse or a lawyer or a doctor or engineer or a businesswoman or anything like that, Right? Would you ever go into your job.
Go to your desk or to your working place and not have a strategy? I'm pretty sure that the answer is no. No, I would have to have a strategy for everything that I do. If you're a mom, you have a strategy in terms of parenting your children, but for some reason in dating, you don't have a strategy. Having a strategy is so important because if you don't have a strategy, you won't be in control of your love life and you won't know what to do at every step of the way. Here's what I want you to know. Women are the leaders of their relationship. They set the pace and they set the emotional depth of each and every relationship that they have.
You've got to know where you want this relationship to go and where you want it to lead. If you don't, you won't know where you're going and you won't have full control of it.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
