Doing Too Much Pt.7

Can you give me an example of doing too much? Let's start with we'll start physically, and then we'll start, like, online. Okay. And then we'll do online dating, offline dating. Let's say you're at a bar, you're at a club, you're at a wine place, you're at brunch. If you are, and you see a guy that you like and you are being loud, trying to get his attention, or just being very direct and fresh and all out there, it's doing a lot. It's doing the most versus actually getting his eyes, getting his attention through a smile, through eye contact, and allowing him to come to you.