Two speakers argue women often ignore warning signs in relationships. They urge you to notice concrete actions: if he doesn't text, if he says you can do better than him, if his words don't match his deeds. A man flew to New York to get a car for his partner, but that's not the point. Pay attention.
I have. Someone said, blind, deaf, mute is crazy.
But girl.
But, girl.
Is it, though?
Is it?
Okay, let's get into it. Blind. Some of y' all don't see what these men are doing right in front of your face. Deaf.
Some of y' all not hearing what they're really telling you.
Ace Death.
Some of y' all not hearing what they're really telling you.
Some of y' all not communicating the way that you need to communicate to.
Get what you want in these relationships and in courtship.
Am I really crazy or am I spitting? That's the question.
Okay.
Honey.
He says things like, you know what?
You can do so much better than me, girl. He's telling you the tea. Believe him.
Girl. When he is.
Not texting you regularly, don't be blind to it. When he says things like, you're. He's busy. Don't be blind to that.
That means he not into it. I was just telling my clients, not too long ago, I was talking to one of my clients who's in a relationship right now. She's probably going to get engaged probably before the new year. And she said, yeah, she lives in New York City. She said, I need a car. I think I'm going to get my mom's car. Who lives in Atlanta. Don't you know? This man flew down to Atlanta, got that car and drove it up to New York City for Atlanta. Got that car and drove it up to New York City for her.
That's what it looks like, ladies. Anything less would be uncivilized. That's what we're going for, okay?
