A dating coach warns Black women away from firefighters, police, military, surgeons, pastors, lawyers, and athletes, citing high divorce rates and control issues in these professions. She recommends social workers, engineers, accountants, and teachers instead, saying they're more likely to provide support and solutions.
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Girl, whatever you do, don't date guys in the following professions. 1. Firefighters, police officers, military guys, surgeons, pastors, lawyers and athletes. Why do I say this? I say this because these professions have the highest divorce rates. But also the men in these professions have a God complex. They feel like they are either saving lives literally or figuratively. Which, which means that they feel like they are a God. And if you are in a relationship with them, it means that you are going to be relegated to a second class citizen in your own relationship. Don't do this. Why? Well, girl, if you date these guys, it's going to be hell on earth. If you date a firefighter, girl, he's going to snuff you out like you're a fire. If you're going to date a police officer, he's going to treat you like a criminal. Right? This is why these professions have high DV rates and high alcoholism rates. If you're going to date a lawyer, girl, it's going to be debate team all day, every day. If you date a surgeon, girl, you're never going to see him because his schedule is totally unpredictable. If you're going to date a pastor, girl, you're going to feel like a sinner. You hear me? If you're going to date an athlete, you are going to always feel like you're not good enough. And he's always going to cheat on you because he has to keep his testosterone really high. If you date a guy in the military, he is always going to want to have power over you because he is in the military and being told what to do all day, every day. So he's going to want to have power and control over you and tell you what to do all day, day, every day. Now, if you find yourself in kind of dating these guys with these specific professions, please realize that you may want to be saved. And these guys in these professions give savior complex. T a man will not be able to save you. You have to be able to save yourself. Please understand this. You have to save yourself. Everything that you're looking for in these guys, you're going to have to provide for yourself. Okay, what are the guys that you should be focused on? You need to focus on guys that are able to provide for you. When I say provide, I mean provide solutions. This is what we're looking for in 2024, 2025 and beyond. You want to look for guys that are solving problems for you. What does that look like? It looks like social workers, it looks like engineers. It looks like accountants. It looks like blue collar workers. It looks like teachers and principals. It looks like financial analysts. These are all people that are solving problems all day, every day. And you deserve to have a man that will solve a lot of your problems so that your life can be as easy as possible. If you want to learn how to do this and to break certain patterns, definitely book a call with me. But I hope this is helpful. Let me know if this has been your experience dating these professions as well.
