Anwar White gives comedic dating advice on assessing male partners, including a specific thumb test measurement from tip to wristbone. He uses NBA and NFL player references and a story about a relationship in Germany to make his point about avoiding disappointment.
Someone said hers was black and I was offended. It is offensive. It's offensive when you know what that boy is. When he knows what he's working with and he thinks that he's gonna make it happen with you.
It's offensive.
It's offensive to think that I was going to be that open minded when in reality I couldn't be open minded because I had to be small minded just to see it.
Someone said, it's despicable. Despicable me part 4 inches.
I don't even have ptsd. It was so small I just had pee.
Like.
I'm pissed.
Upset.
Like what?
Don't let these small boys trick you. So when I do videos.
About checking for the thumb to know what he's working with, I fucking mean it.
It's not to go viral, girl. I go viral every week, twice a week. I don't care about that. I'm trying to put you up on game so that you're not disappointed. Like I.
Mm.
I kinda wanna cry right now.
But I'm not gonna do it. What did Mary say?
Ain't gonna cry no more. Ain't gonna shed no tear.
Someone said, tell us about the thumb test. So you gotta measure the tip of the thumb to the wristbone. That's what they're giving.
Yeah. And if the thumb is curved, goes like that, right? That means he's packing.
Okay.
Mark my word, don't look at the feet. There are a lot of basketball players, football players.
Trust me, from personal experience in the NBA and the NFL.
Nada, Prada.
Nada.
Okay? Big lips. Doesn't mean anything. I will tell you that. The width of the nose will tell you the width and the girth of the. You know what?
Okay.
You can look at my nose, girl. Cause you ain't getting any of this mess. So I don't care as married.
But look at that width of that nose, girl.
That's why some of these Nigerians, nose all across their face will destroy you. Not all of them, girl. They're kind of. It's like a give and take. One time.
Girl. One time when I was living in Germany, I was with a Nigerian.
And.
That thing was the size of the continent. I felt like I was going back to the motherland.
It was.
It was what it was. It tested me. Have y' all ever been in a situation where.
You'Re like, mmm, okay, I got a lot of food on this plate. I got a lot of food on this plate. And maybe my eyes were bigger than my stomach or my punani, but mama didn't raise no fool, mama. Didn't raise no quitter. So.
Again.
You put that hair in the bun.
And you try to make it work.
Someone said. Had you speaking in tongues? No, girl, I couldn't speak.
I was trying to play like I was hard in the paint. And.
With every stroke, he was taking a little piece of me.
Girl.
I could last. Maybe around.
Maybe.
This was no boxing match.
You. You know, it is like real deal when you can't say anything. You can't even moan. You know how sometimes you like, moan to try to get yourself into the mood.
When you're quiet, you're trying to survive.
In the chat. Let me know if I'm the only person that has gone through this. And don't leave me hanging, girls. Don't leave me hanging.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
