Anwar White argues straight men often give bad dating advice because many are narcissists who manipulate or love bomb women. She broadens this to say narcissists across genders hand out relationship tips, shares her own narcissistic phase and therapy, and warns viewers to be careful who they listen to.
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You know, here's what I will tell you.
Whatever you do, this might be a little bit controversial, but I don't really care. Don't listen to straight men that are giving you dating advice. Most of them are narcissists and no shade, the gay ones are narcissists too. Girl, I think if people are giving you dating advice, most of the time they're narcissists. They know how to manipulate people to do what they want and that's why they're so good at this. Girl, I went through my narcissistic phase too, until I had to do the work. Honey, I had to go into therapy. I had to stop. Because here's the thing, when you know how to do things, you won't use it for your good.
My heart was closed before I was married. And so what I would do is I would use these boards, boys and these men for my own self gratification and my ego. I would think to myself, how many boys can I get to kiss me tonight at the club? If I knew I said six, I would do seven because of my ego. What did Beyonce say?
I had a big ego.
So I just want to let you know because what you're going to see more and more is that all of these straight guys that are giving advice, they're going to get called out one way or another. They're dating women and they're playing them and they're love bombing them because they know that they, they know exactly how to work women. So literally every month I'm hearing about another, another straight guy who's giving advice that is Shade, shade, shade, shade.
