A short YouTube dialogue (Anwar White) explaining what feminine energy means in relationships and arguing women should cultivate it themselves rather than relying on men to ‘force’ it. The speakers define feminine energy (feeling-led, acceptance, patience, emotional support) and describe three levels: Level 1 — codependent (nagging/over-sharing), Level 2 — Miss Independent (trauma-response, withholding need/value), and Level 3 — mature feminine (self-sufficient but allows a partner to provide/support). The video closes with an invitation to book coaching to reach Level 3.
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Hey, girl. So there seems to be a misconception.
That a man is supposed to take the masculine energy out of you and.
Force you into your feminine energy. That's not his responsibility, that's yours. You've got to come with that energy.
If that is what you want.
Please understand that it's 2023 and you.
Get to be in whatever energy that you want to be in.
But I know that most of you want a masculine energetic, so that means that you got to present with your.
Feminine energy as your dominant energy. Because relationships are about compliments.
So please understand. And so many people ask me, well, what's my feminine energy?
Feminine energy is about leading with feelings instead of thoughts.
It's about acceptance versus judgment.
It's about patience versus rushing.
It's also about.
Really like giving emotional support versus strategy.
Right?
So those are the things you want to lean into if you want to.
Learn how to be more in your feminine energy. I help my clients with that.
But if you want to focus on that on your own, you can do that.
What I know is that there are three levels of feminine energy.
The ground level, level one, is what I call kind of the codependent energy. So if you're that girl that's nagging, calling him, texting him all the time, like dumping all your emotional stuff on.
Him all of the time, that's going.
To be a lot of pressure and energy for him and he's going to want to step away from that. Right?
So that is an energy that you.
Want to try to stay away from.
Level 2 energy is mis independent, which.
Is often a trauma response. But please understand, when you're Miss Independent, you are going to let him know.
That I don't need you. And when he doesn't feel of value.
To you, he's going to step away and find a woman that he can.
Feel of value to. That's level two.
Level three is the level that I.
Help my clients get into, which is.
I can do everything on my own.
But what I'm going to do is.
I'm going to allow you to do for me, right?
While also taking some things off of my plate so that I'm not as stressed.
There is deeper work that needs to.
Happen for women to get there because we have to get through all of the times that people didn't show up for us and we have to be able to trust, which is really hard to do when you've had experiences where people haven't been able to be reliable.
So let me know in the comments what level of feminine energy you're in.
