Short YouTube advice clip (transcript) in which the speaker tells a caller to end a friends-with-benefits relationship. The speaker argues that a man who keeps someone as a FWB does not like them, is using them, and will not take emotional responsibility; the repeated directive is to let him go and protect oneself from becoming emotionally hooked.
Someone said, give me dating advice on a fuck buddy who won't commit.
Leave him alone. That's the advice. Let him go. Any man that makes you a friends with benefits situation doesn't like you and is using you, you will never move from a friends with benefits to an actual relationship.
It's not going to happen.
So I'm sharing this with you so you don't play yourself.
Okay?
Yeah, it won't happen. He doesn't like you. He's using you.
He's benefiting. He's probably benefiting more than you are. And when you get into a situation like that, there's no insist incentive for a man to actually want to be in a relationship with you.
Why would he. To be in a relationship means that I actually have to have emotional responsibility for you.
Why would I sign up for that if I don't have to?
So that's why, like, if you, if you want to be in that situation, that's on you. I will tell you that in my experience, more most women won't be able to handle a friends with benefit situation because you will get hooked. It sounds like you're hooked. And chemically these things are happening, right? So you got to know your body, you got to know if you put it on someone, if you're going to get hooked or not.
