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Now, I'm pretty sure you've heard of boy pretty and girl pretty, but I wanted to talk a little bit about man pretty because not a lot of people are talking about it. Now, when I say boy pretty and girl pretty, if you haven't heard about it, this is the notion that what girls think are pretty is different than what boys think are pretty. But I want to, of course, you know me, Mr. AP, give you a third dimension. Girl, as a dating coach for 14 years, and as your fairy godbrother, I want to put you on game. I want you to understand that there is a difference between boy pretty and man pretty. And man pretty are. Are the ways in which men who are ready for a relationship are viewing how you look and how you present yourself. Okay, now, am I saying that you gotta do this? No. What I am saying is that what you think you have to do actually isn't probably going to attract the guy that you want to be with. Okay, so let's get started. Okay. So for nails, girl pretty is like the designs. Oh, my God. You know, the girl who has all those crazy designs. You're probably going to get a lot of compliments from girls. Boy pretty is like red nails or even like white nails. And in the black community, white nails right now means freaky tiki. If you are wannabe man pretty girl, it's all about that French manicure. Yeah. That is what the girls are giving when they are about to get their guy, honey. Okay, okay, so we talked about nails. Let's talk about makeup. Okay. Girl pretty is like contour up the wazoo, lashes galore, all of that. Boy pretty is like, done up with, like, a red lip. Like, pretend you went to Sephora and you had one of the girls do you up. Yeah, that's boy pretty. Man pretty is clean face nude lip, potentially even just gloss. Okay, so that is makeup body. Girl pretty is thin. Right. If you look at all the magazines, all the magazines that are focused on women are all focused on thinness. Boy pretty is like extreme curvature. Yeah. So like bbls, like, 54, 12, 54. And man pretty is in between those. Yeah. So in terms of clothes, right? Girl pretty is like.

Like, really unique, high fashion. Boy pretty is like fashion nova. And man pretty is like Banana Republic or like Lululemon. Yeah. So why am I telling you all of this? I'm telling you all of this so that you understand that like man pretty, the guys that are interested in a relationship are not putting a lot of emphasis and weight on your physical beauty or attractiveness. That ultimately, it's a small part of how they are evaluating you. They're focused on the average of all things. They are giving Goldilocks all up in here. They're focused on what's inside, how who you are as a woman. Right. Are you healed? How do you communicate? Right. How do you connect intellectually, emotionally, not just physically? The guys that are hyper focused on physical attractiveness. The boy Pretty. Those guys aren't ready for relationships. Pretty much, yeah. That's why I'm sharing this information with you more than anything else. Your looks really don't matter as much as you think that they do. I hope that this was a helpful video for you. If I've missed anything as it pertains to Man Pretty, let me know in the comments.