A short YouTube monologue by dating coach Anwar White advising Black women about five types of white men who are likely to be interested in dating them. The speaker aims to reduce fear about dating white men and encourages widening dating options, listing: redheads ("gingers"), Italian and Jewish men, successful artists, nerdy/dorky men, and European men — with celebrity/examples and a closing prompt to comment on viewers' experiences.
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Black women are scared to date white men. And I talk to them every day as a dating coach for black and brown women. And it astonishes me because when you open up your net, you literally 7x your opportunity to find love. So in this video, I'm going to talk about the top five white guys that are checking for you black women so that you can feel safer. Swirling.
Now what we will not do is go for Mr. White Chocolate. Like, if you want white chocolate girl, get yourself a black man. This is basically the same thing. This guy is not on our list because everybody's going for him. So go ahead. If you want him, go ahead and get him. But I'm gonna give you the five actual white guys that maybe not a lot of people are going for.
So number one, you already knew it was gonna be gingers girl. The gingers. And I don't even know if that's appropr 2023 to say or not. The red headed men, honey, they're checking for you. The redheads are the blacks of the whites. So when you see one red hair girl, I want you to pounce on it because he's going to be checking for you, you hear me? So the second group of white guys that I want you to be checking for, and I'm gonna put them in a category, but obviously Italian men and Jewish men, these men are looking for partners, women, to keep it real with them and to accept, hold it down. And obviously Italian men know what beauty looks like and that's why they're checking for black women. The third type of white guy that are checking for black women are artists. And I'm not talking about the struggling artists, literally the artists that are at the top of their game. So Bowie, Wolfgang Puck, George Lucas, Joshua Jackson, Dwaber, De Niro, all artists that are killing it and can appreciate the amazingness of a black woman. The fourth white guy on my list are the dorky and nerdy guys like Cameron from Love is Blind. What do I love about these nerdy and dorky white guys? One, their balance of masculine and feminine energy perfectly aligns with so many black women who have a good amount of both masculine and feminine energy. So this pairing actually works out really well. Not to mention that you and I both know that the nerds be packing, girl.
And the final and last group of white guys that are checking for black women are European men. This is Dirk Nowitzki. He is a German basketball player, hall of famer. The Euro guys are checking for you. If you go to Europe, you're going to 10x your chances of finding love, trust and believe. The Netherlands, Germany, England, Italy, Croatia, Greece, all going to look at you and think that you are a goddess. They're probably going to think that you're Beyonce too.
Now, girl, if they have multiple categories like Ed Sheeran, girl, watch out. They're checking for you and they're probably going to chase you down and want to get you. Okay, now let me know in the comments. Well, I hope that this alleviates any fears around who you should be going for when it comes to the white guys. Let me know in the comments. Has this been your experience? Have you experienced one of those these types and have they been checking for you? I hope this was fun.