Anwar White argues that 35-year-old women don't lose value. Secure, established men prefer partners their age, while insecure men chase younger women. Older women bring intellectual depth and stability that attract legacy-focused, wealthy men.
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Someone said, have I lost value as a 35 year old woman? Not at all, not at all. I think many of you all are listening to men that talk a lot of ish about women. All of those men are single.
There's a reason why they're single. And oftentimes they will say things like after 35, like, you know, your value in the market is not great. I want you to think about, there are a lot of women out there that are 35 and older that are women of color, that have gotten into amazing relationships like Serena Williams, like Melody Hobbs. There's so many that. Actually here's how I want you to think about this. When you're older, you're going to be probably more established and that will allow you to navigate and inhabit spaces where.
Relationship ready, rich, wealthy, more stable men are going to be.
That's awesome. You want to be able to be in those spaces and maybe at 26 or 28 you weren't able to be in those spaces because you just weren't there yet.
There's something really amazing about being a 35 plus year old woman. And guys that are secure within themselves actually prefer to engage with women their age. Men that are trying to prove something, that actually are probably emotionally unavailable are going to go for the young women that they're going to want to use for trophies and, and those men care more about how other people view them than how they view themselves. You don't want to be with those men.
Men that are, that's like rich boy stuff. You want wealthy men. Wealthy men are focused on legacy, are focused on women that can challenge them, that can make them think about things differently.
About women, who can teach them things, give them different perspectives. You know, you want to be a woman that can talk about a variety of different subjects like spirituality, biotechnology, AI.