A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White using a Hawaiian-pizza metaphor to give dating advice: don’t try to make everyone like you; be yourself so the right people (those who “love Hawaiian pizza”) will find and repeatedly choose you. The piece emphasizes staying visible/available long enough for the right people to discover and prefer you.
Chapters
Hello, my loves. I just came on here to talk about how in dating, I don't want you to be thinking about making everyone like you. That's not what dating is about. Think about it like this, okay? So my kids love Hawaiian pizza. I am not a fan, but I want you to think about yourself as Hawaiian pizza. Not everyone loves Hawaiian pizza, but the people that do live for it can't get enough of it. Order it every freaking time. Right? Your job in dating is to stay in the game long enough for people to actually find you Hawaiian pizza and make sure that they're ordering, ordering, ordering you and can't get enough of you. I hope that makes sense. As we start to think about how we are not focused on having other people like us, we're focused on being ourselves and attracting people to not get enough of us.