Anwar White discusses 'healthy masculine energy' in romantic relationships, focusing here on courtship and early dating. He argues healthy masculine energy prioritizes a woman's happiness, safety, security, and comfort, and emphasizes that men should actively check in with women rather than assume consent or compliance—particularly important when women are conditioned to accept absent masculine attention.
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In those romantic relationships, what we will see. Let's just start from the courtship. Let's say you're online dating, and they are. They're saying, hey, what's going on? Like, I want to take you out. And so many of us will think that's amazing. And that's great because he's determined and he's planned and he wants to engage with you. But I want to offer to you that if you are coming from a masculine energy that was physically absent.
That'S going to feel good to you because he's giving you the attention that you feel like you need. But in reality, it's actually not great. It's not healthy energy, because healthy masculine energy is actually about focusing and making the first priority a woman's happiness, a woman's safety, a woman's security, a woman's comfortability and comfort. So healthy masculine energy will actually want to make sure that you're comfortable enough doing that and not assume that. That you will just go with the flow. He has to actually check in with you. He has to make sure that that's comfortable for you. Right. So many women are conditioned and programmed to think, no, he's a man with the plan and he's saying what he wants. He's got to check in with you first to let you know that that's okay with you, that that's what this is. You and your feminine energy have to feel good about the things that are happening and if not, be able to speak on that.
