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Healthy Masculine Energy Pt.7

Name: Healthy Masculine Energy Pt.7
Uploaded: 2022-08-17T12:36:38+00:00
Duration: 16 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: This YouTube video (Healthy Masculine Energy Pt.7 by Anwar White) contrasts healthy versus toxic masculine energy during courtship. The speaker…

17 Aug 2022 · 0 min

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This YouTube video (Healthy Masculine Energy Pt.7 by Anwar White) contrasts healthy versus toxic masculine energy during courtship. The speaker distinguishes words (compliments, expressing desire to see someone again) from physical actions (e.g., uninvited kissing), argues media (Disney, rom-coms) conditions women to accept such behavior, labels unsolicited physical advances as feeling like assault, and advises that someone with healthy masculine energy would be attentive to the partner’s comfort while toxic masculine energy acts without regard.

Now there's a difference between the action and the words, right? If he's complimenting you, if he's saying, oh my God, I'm having such a great time, I want to see you again, all of that, that's different. But the physical act of acting on you, that's a lot.
And I think that women get conditioned through Disney, through rom coms, through movies and media to think that that's acceptable. But I'm pretty sure that many of you have been in a situation where some guy randomly kissed you and it felt assaulty. I didn't want that. But he did it anyway, right? A guy in his healthy masculine energy would never want a woman or someone in their divine feminine energy to ever feel that way.
Because he's thinking about that. But a toxic masculine energy person is not. He's going to do without thinking. Yeah. Something to think about as you are going through the courtship phase.