Short YouTube advice segment (Anwar White) addressing high-achieving women who seek partners similar to themselves. Speaker argues that insisting on a 'clone' partner limits romantic prospects, urges widening the dating pool to seek complementary traits, and asserts coach-like credibility with an anecdotal claim that ~90% of successful matches differ from initial expectations.
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Hey, girl. One of the things that really hinders high achieving women in finding love is that they think that they have to find their clone. Someone that is just like them, that is just as accomplished as they are. And I want to let you know that that is something that is going to hold you back in love. And the reason I say that is because in love, we have to be focused on our compliments, our yin and our yang. Here's what I know. When you spend all of your life creating your own brand and your own reputation, you want your partner to reflect that. But that's not the job of your partner. Your partner is there to love you and support you, right? So I want to just offer to you all, as you are looking for love, to widen your net. As someone who gets women into relationships every one to two weeks, I can tell you with a defined certainty that 90% of the time it's not going to look like the way that you wanted it to look like. And that's okay, as long as it feels the way that it should be.