Anwar White argues that labeling people as high or low value is judgment, not acceptance, and damages your ability to connect in dating. Love requires accepting people as they are, not ranking them.
What I know for sure about love is that love equals acceptance. And when you are considering someone high value, it also means because in life there is a yin and there's a yang. So if you have someone that's high value, then that means that someone is low value. Right? And if you are looking at people and evaluating them as low value, then in your mind, right, you are judging people. And judging is the opposite of acceptance. Judging is the opposite of love. So I want you to realize that if you are putting people in high value and low value buckets, you are actually judging them in a way that's not going to serve you in your dating life. Why do I say that? I say that because high value means superior and low value means inferior. If you feel like you're better than people, there's going to be, it's going to be very hard for you to connect with anyone.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
