Anwar White argues that calling someone "low value" strips away their humanity. Real security means seeing everyone's intrinsic worth, which opens you to actual connection instead of chasing an imagined type.
When you're saying that someone is low value, you are dehumanizing them. Everyone has value. Every single person has value. That may not be someone that you want to partner with, but that person has value. And when you are blind to that, then you will have a very difficult time truly and deeply connecting with anybody and everybody. So when I talk about doing the work and making sure that you can get to a place where you are secure within yourself to be able to find that everybody's at this line, including you. Everyone is even. Everyone is equal. That's when you are actually going to, like, be in a place to find the love of your life. Because when you're there, when you're at this even place and you put everyone there, it means that you are open to anyone and everyone. And what I know for sure is that the person that's going to come into your life is probably not going to look like what you imagine them to look like.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
