Anwar White argues that finding someone compatible isn't enough if they don't show up. A real connection requires concrete actions: regular contact, making plans, demonstrating commitment through behavior, not just good conversation.
Most people are looking for a match first and foremost.
And the way that I teach my clients how to date is I have to see how this man shows up for you first.
Because guess what? You could have the best match in the world. But if he's not showing up for you, there's no connection. There's no match. Right? You might have an amazing date where you guys are chatting and it feels like everything's flowing and the vibes are there. But if he can't do what you want them to, what you want him to do, if he's not reaching out to you every day, if he's not making dates, who cares if you're vibing, who cares if things are flowing?
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
