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How can you attract men to you?

Name: How can you attract men to you?
Uploaded: 2024-05-09T13:56:38+00:00
Duration: 1 min 2 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short monologue advising that attracting men comes from focusing on yourself and cultivating self-love and a fulfilling life. The speaker emphasizes…

9 May 2024 · 1 min

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A short monologue advising that attracting men comes from focusing on yourself and cultivating self-love and a fulfilling life. The speaker emphasizes living on your terms—having a satisfying job, traveling, pursuing energizing hobbies, and being able to look at yourself without shame—as the magnetic quality that draws men in. Repetition is used for emphasis.

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Charlie said, how do you draw a man to you? You draw a man to you by not even paying attention to anything that have to do with men. That's the crazy thing.
You draw men into you when you are obsessed with yourself.
What does that mean? That means, like, everything is on your terms, that you are really living your life and you're not letting life live you. Yeah. So you're in the job that you want to be in, and you actually enjoy it.
You are traveling the way that you want to travel. You are engaged in hobbies and passions that energize you.
That you love yourself. You look in the mirror and you can stare at it and you don't look away or you don't feel shame. Right.
Because when you're, like, loving on yourself.
This is like. It is magnetic.
Yeah. The other thing is, like, you want to do the work to heal. Yeah. That's what's going to be important here.