YouTube video by Anwar White offering direct dating/ flirting advice aimed at women. The speaker emphasizes teasing and playful banter as the quickest way for men to bond, contrasts teasing with overtly sexual approaches, and gives practical guidance on tone (like family-style teasing rather than mean insults).
Someone said, teach us the game, Sensei. Girl, what game? What game? You know what I do?
I let these boys know that they don't have it.
I let. I just give them a lot of shit. And you know why? That's the tea. But a lot of women, there's different ways to flirt with men, right?
You can flirt with a man by being va, va voom, sexy, sexy, blah, blah, blah. And then you can razz them. You can tease them. I'm always going to tease them. I'm always going to talk about how they're not doing enough for me. I'm always going to talk about how I think that they're a gentleman and I hope that they show me, you know, what I believe them to be.
Why?
The reason why is because the way that men bond, just think about a group of men together, the way that they come close together is by teasing each other.
It is the quickest way for a man to bond to you.
A lot of women are like, I don't really know how to be flirty or banter.
Talk shit.
Don't be mean to men because a lot of y' all will be mean to them.
When I'm talking about teasing, I'm talking about in the same way that you would tease a family member at a family function, at a family reunion.
That's how you want to tease them.
Don't. Just don't talk to them and just say, yeah, you're an idiot.
No, some of y' all can bully and be mean to them because you're trying to knock them down a few pegs because you tired of men thinking that they're better than you.
