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How can you avoid feeling nervous when dating?

Name: How can you avoid feeling nervous when dating?
Uploaded: 2024-02-23T14:54:44+00:00
Duration: 30 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) offering practical dating advice focused on reducing nervousness. Key recommendations: go on many dates so each…

23 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) offering practical dating advice focused on reducing nervousness. Key recommendations: go on many dates so each feels low-stakes, avoid a scarcity/"do-or-die" mindset, don't pedestalize partners, and focus on having fun and being yourself. The speaker gives a rough frequency estimate ("5, 10%") for progressing beyond multiple dates.

Yak said how to not feel nervous during dates. What do I say? You know what's interesting? Go out on a lot of dates so that they don't mean that, like, they're not a big deal in your head right now. It's like do or die. And there's probably a bit of love scarcity mindset. So you like.
I don't want to ruin it. I don't want to mess it up. Girl, a date is a date is a date is a date.
Half the time you're not going to have a second date with the guy. Yeah. And.
5, 10% of the time, you'll probably have more than a third date with him.
Have fun. Talk your shit. The other part is sometimes unconsciously, women will put these guys on a pedestal. And, girl, they're not even on your level most of the time.