Anwar White argues that feminine energy comes from healing childhood wounds and building internal safety, not from red lipstick or dresses. When caregivers were emotionally unavailable or critical, women develop defensive masculine habits. Inner-child and womb healing work lets them become naturally magnetic and warm.
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Fit and Foodie said how to get into the more feminine energy. So this is something that I definitely do in my program. It's not just like a put on some red lipstick and a red dress and then you'll be feminine. Some of the dating coaches out there will tell you that that's actually. That's you cosplaying femininity. And it's not going to fully work.
When you're not in your feminine energy. This is actually an inner child womb. It means that you were not raised with feminine, energetic love. Oftentimes it comes from an emotionally or like, highly critical or judgmental mother or emotionally absent or even physically absent father.
So what happens is you feel like you can't rely on other people. So then you get into your masculine as a defense mechanism for that.
So you have to heal that before you can naturally be in your feminine energy.
Once you do that.
You will naturally be magnetic.
You can. You can put the lipstick on and the red dress on. It's all an act. It's all a game. And you're going to attract.
Men that are more focused on the physicality and less focused on the totality of a woman.
That's why you. There are some women that are super pretty, super gorgeous.
Single as a bill, because they still got that masculine energy. They're still sharp.
Right. They lack warmth.
And I will tell you, it is not easy to get into that feminine energy.
Because to be in your feminine energy requires a level of internal safety.
That many of us don't have. And if you're a black woman, I can understand why you won't have that.
Well, that's the work that I do in my program to make sure that my clients do that so that it's easier to be in your feminine energy. And it's also easier to flirt, banter, and.
