Anwar White explains how to get noticed by acting like the main character: engage everyone around you, from hosts to bartenders, and people will feel special enough to give you their attention. When you're visibly social, others see low rejection risk and approach you first.
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Someone said, I want to be seen. Where should I go? It's not about the places. It's about the energy that you have and having that magnetic energy, being in what we call your main character energy, being the protagonist in your own life. That's what's important here. A lot of us, and this is no Shade are acting like the fat, funny friend in A Lifetime or a Hallmark movie.
And no Shade, men aren't attracted to that. It's fun to talk shit with you for a night, but they're not going to text you the next morning. This has been my experience.
Okay, so, so what does it mean? It means.
Being the protagonist who, like, think about a protagonist in a movie or in a TV show. What do they do in every scene that they're in?
This is kind of like a secret, but I'll tell you, honey, because you know I got a big mouth.
Whoever they're talking to.
They make them feel like the star and they make them feel like they're the only person in the room when they're talking to them.
Yeah. When you make people feel special.
They will give you their energy.
And you will expand.
And more and more people will start to be attracted to you.
Okay.
Yeah. So this is what I teach my clients in my program, to make sure that they have that energy so that people are coming to them.
So like, let's say you go to a restaurant girl, you chatted up with the hostess, you chat it up with your waiter or waitress, you chat it up with the bartender, you chat it up next to the table.
When guys are seeing that you're chatting with a lot of different people, they're going to want to actually come up to you because you've shown them that if they are to talk to you that they're not going to get rejected. Because most men are actually really sensitive to rejection. But if they see you like, oh.
She talking to everybody, so I can talk to her too, you're gonna have more and more people coming to you. Even if you got a resting bitch face girl, no shade.
