Anwar White says stop chasing men who don't show interest. Date multiple people instead and pick from those actively pursuing you. Some people unconsciously seek rejection because of past hurt, but you don't have to be one of them.
Roxanna said, how can we get that type of attention from men we actually like? You know what the gag is?
The gag is you're gonna have to date everybody and see who likes you the most. And out of the guys that are, like, are pursuing you, you're gonna choose one of them.
Easiest dating strategy that you can do. Pick out of the guys that are, like, love you, you got to pick one of those guys. Many, many of you all are picking men that don't like you. I think some of us have a rejection kink. No shade. And because maybe we were rejected a lot by our parents or other people, other relationships, and so it feels familiar to us.
Y' all are acting like you're actors.
Getting rejected by each and every job you get, waiting for the big break.
No shade, but you probably have three to five guys that are obsessed with you right now, but you never give the time of day to.
Spill it in the chat, honey. Spill it in the chat.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
