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How can you stop attracting narcissistic guys?

Name: How can you stop attracting narcissistic guys?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:44.035308
Duration: 55 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short advice clip answering how to stop attracting narcissistic men. The speaker explains that negative self-talk and excessive apologizing can signal…

7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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A short advice clip answering how to stop attracting narcissistic men. The speaker explains that negative self-talk and excessive apologizing can signal vulnerability that narcissists exploit, and recommends cultivating boundaries and healthy vulnerability (not over-apologizing) to repel narcissistic men.

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Naya said. How do I stop. How do I stop attracting narcissistic men? Great question. I know that if you're saying things, if you're apologizing for no reason, if you are, you know, self deprecating, if you say things like, I don't know, you're going to attract narcissistic men.
Why? Because if you, if you already telling yourself that you're bad or that you're in the wrong, all they have to do is agree with you. That is like the MO of narcissistic guys. So there are self things that you can do on your own to make sure that you are repelling narcissistic guys. Boundaries. Narcissistic guys don't like boundaries. Being super vulnerable, narcissistic guys can't deal with vulnerability. They can't hold space for other people. They can. They only want space held for them. So if you hyper focus on those things, you will repel those narcissistic guys. Yeah.