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How can you tell if a guy is serious about you?

Name: How can you tell if a guy is serious about you?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:43:42.585699
Duration: 6 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) advising how to tell if a man is serious about a romantic relationship. The speaker lists behavioral signs…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) advising how to tell if a man is serious about a romantic relationship. The speaker lists behavioral signs: planning a date about once a week, reaching out frequently (at least every other day), sharing feelings (emotional disclosure rather than only activity-based bonding), and calling after work to be the first person he talks to about his day.

How can you tell if he's serious about you?
He'll plan a date once a week. At least he will reach out to you on a frequent basis. Doesn't have to be every day, but at least every other day he'll start sharing with you his feelings.
That's the difference between getting friend zoned and being put in on the more relationship path. Most guys, the way that they kind of bond with their guy friends is that they'll do everything with them. We'll play video games together, we'll, you know, play basketball together. That's how they bond. But if they are truly bonding with you in a romantic way, they will also share their feelings with you. So I look for that. I also look for, is he calling you right after work? Because that means that you are the first person he wants to talk to about his day.
And if you by any chance hook up with him. Are you guys having conversations after you hook up, if after you're intimate, or is it just bam, bam, alright, I'm out.