Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) explaining how to recognize a "provider" in relationships by observable behaviors — not labels. Emphasizes reliable, proactive actions (plans dates thoroughly, pays/tips well, handles travel logistics) that provide security and peace of mind; uses personal anecdotes to illustrate.
Alan golden angel said, how to know if a man has a provider mindset.
It doesn't matter what his mindset is. It matters what his provider behavior is, right? Which means that he's providing for absolutely everything. You don't have to think about anything once, twice or three times, honey, he's taking care of it all. And there's never a question, there's never hesitancy. He tips well, right? He plans dates very well and thoroughly, right? Because provider is not just about money, it's about providing security, right? It's providing peace of mind, right? It's not just money, right? If so, for example, like, I'm in my relationship, I am someone that is in the masculine energy. And so I take care of all of the travel that we do, right? If I tell my partner, like, so like next weekend I'm going to New Orleans for one of my clients weddings.
I took care of everything. Hotel, plane, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, right? Because that's what someone in their true masculine energy is going to do. So, for example, when a guy says, oh, I'd love to take you out, and you say, yeah, I'd love that. I'm available Saturday evening and within a day he's told you, here's the place, here's the time, here's the location, here's the Google map to get you there, right? That's provider.
