Short YouTube monologue by Anwar White describing how to tell when someone is love-bombing you. Key signs: pet names and excessive compliments; discussing long-term plans (e.g., trips or 6–12 month plans) very early; declaring "I love you" too soon; and extreme reactions to boundaries, exemplified by repeated apologies.
Shant Mont said, how can you tell when a man is not love bombing you? Well, I always think that love bombing.
Pet names. It's like love bombing 101. When he over compliments you. And you know, you know how that goes. No shade. But you know, there are a lot of African men that will over compliment you.
That's love bombing. And then the other thing that I see quite a bit is.
They'Ll talk about what they want to do six 12 months from now. Like, you'll be on a first date with them, and then they'll say, oh, my God, on Christmas, I want to take you to Paris. This is the first date, dude. Or he's saying, I love you. It's like, dude, you don't even know me. That's the love bomb. The other thing that I think is important, that isn't really talked about a lot, but I think we should be talking about is the fact that love bombers have extreme reactions to different things. So let's say you set a boundary.
With a guy and he apologizes more than one or two times, that's a love bomb, too. If he's apologizing five, six, eight, nine times, girl, that's a love bomb. It's the over compliments, it's the over apologies. It's the over anything. That's the love bomb. So I hope that helps.
