Dating coach Anwar White argues that Black women who date only Black men face a drastically reduced pool. With 13% of men being Black and 80% not relationship-ready, that leaves roughly 2 available Black men per 100 people. Adding stricter criteria like height, education, and income drops it to 1 in 250.
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Hey, I'm over here. My name's Anwar. I'm a dating coach for black women. And so often I hear about black women who are just focused on dating black men. And I wanted to break down the numbers because I was an undergrad statistics major. So I look up at love quantitatively and qualitatively. So I wanted to break it down to let you know how difficult you are making your love life be just by focusing on black men. Okay? So for every 100 men, 13% of those men are black. So you have 13 men out of 100. Now, 80% of those guys are not going to be ready for a relationship that's across the board. Any color of guy. They're just not going to be ready if they're single. Yeah. So we go from 13 to three. Now, if we take into account unemployment, underemployment, gay and in prison, you are looking at two out of every hundred men, two black men out of every hundred men that are going to be bare minimum available for a relationship. So that's one out of 50. Okay, one out of 50. Now I want to talk about the talented 10th qualities that so many of you all are looking at, right? He's got to be 6 foot feet or taller. He's got to have a graduate degree. Six figures. We when you have that criteria, you are looking at one out of every 250 men. Okay? Now if you just look at everybody, right, and you do the same math, the same statistics, one out of every seven guys is ready for a relationship. So if you're focusing on just black guys, bare minimum, it's seven times harder. If you are focused on the talented 10th, you are making it 35 times harder to get your guy. We get to do it easier. And if you want to learn how to do this well, girl, you better talk to me now. I don't know what to tell you. I don't know what to tell you. If you want to keep on making love hard, girl, by all means, it's your love life. Get your life. There are non black men checking for you. And you get to make this love life thing much easier by opening and widening your net and just focusing on the men that are going to treat you the best, regardless of what color they are. I hope this helps. Let me know in the comments what you think. Is this going to convince you to date everybody? Please say yes.
