Anwar White discusses why women pursue sneaky links, citing TJ Debrat's view that it often comes down to settling for attention and physical affection when they crave real emotional and intellectual connection.
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TJ debrat said. Hey, amore, how do you feel about sneaky links? Toxic? Well, it depends on your. Your goals. If you just want a link, then what's the issue? Like I said before, what I find though, is that a lot of women that do this are actually just settling. They would rather have.
A man's D than all of a man because at least they have something from a man. And ultimately, what I know is that for a lot of times, this is because we really yearn for attention and we yearn to be cherished and adored. And oftentimes that feels like it in the bedroom, even if it's for the three minutes that they're pumping, no shade that we feel like I'm the center. Yeah. So I just think that there are things that are happening, underlying things that are happening that we need to heal so that we don't necessarily feel or we're dissatisfied with the sneaky link that the work is learning how to connect with men beyond physicality, intellectually as well as emotionally.