Anwar White breaks down three levels of feminine energy and explains why controlling men avoid women with firm boundaries. Level one is clingy and needy, level two is completely independent, and level three does her own thing but lets her partner contribute. Set boundaries early in dating.
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Keys said tips for avoiding controlling men. I feel like I am soft, feminine, and I keep attracting crazies. You're too soft and you're too feminine. That's the problem. There are different levels of feminine energy. And if you're attracting controlling men, it means that your boundaries are not in place where they need to be. It also means that your feminine energy is one where it is like giving too much power to men. Right? There is like. There's like, level one, which is like, I'm always texting him, I'm always calling him, I always need him. I'm nagging him a lot, right? That's level one. I feel like you're probably closer to level one and I'm not coming for you. Level two is Miss Independent. I don't need a man. I can do it all for all by myself. And then level three is where you want to be and where I teach my clients to be, which is I can do it for myself, but I'm going to allow you to do it for me so that you can feel good and I also can have things off of my plate and feel more relaxed and less stressed.
So you got some boundaries that you're going to need to kind of enlist and start to institute in the courtship phase.
Because controlling men will not know what to do with your boundaries, and it will repel them, and that's what you want.
