Anwar White says women on dating apps exhaust themselves by asking too many questions and leading conversations. Let men do the work instead. Most matches (97-98%) never meet in person anyway, so treat it as casual flirting to avoid burnout.
Somebody, thank you so much for the friendship necklace. Okay, Be Moody said. How do I overcome leading a conversation? Especially on dating sites, I tend to always ask more questions than the guy. Stop it. That's the masculine coming out from inside of you. You trying to drive everything because you're trying to control everything. You don't need to control dating when if you are putting that much effort, that's why you're probably exhausted on these apps. Also.
Let these men do all the work.
When you lead conversation, that's like the number one way that you are going to get butt hurt in online dating, because 98, 97, 98% of the conversations that you have, you will never meet these guys in real life. You never will. And then you're going to put all of this effort into chatting with them because you think that each and every person is the one. I want you, when you're on these apps, to think that nobody is the one.
Not, not one of them.
And that you're just on these apps for shits and giggles. That we're just kikiing, we're having fun, we're bantering, we're flirting, and that's it.
If you do that.
I swear to you, in three to six months, you probably will have a man. Most of y' all are not doing that, though.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
