Short monologue/advice about dating an Asian man, presented from the perspective of a Black woman. The speaker emphasizes assessing a partner’s ability to protect against micro/macroaggressions, his family dynamics, and whether he prioritizes and adores you.
Toshina said, first time dating outside of my race with an Asian man. Advice, you're you're going to want to see how he can protect you on like, on your dates.
Between your dates, because.
His level of protection, his level of observation are going to be important in terms of if he's going to make your life easier, you know, as a woman of color, as a black woman specifically, you're going to go through many micro and macro aggressions, and he's going to need to be able to protect you from some, if not most of them. Yeah. Also, his family is going to probably be a bit funky, so he's going to need to protect you from them. And he's going to need to have the wherewithal to be able to choose you and exalt you over anybody else. Right. So we also have to kind of analyze does he adore you?