Two speakers tell Christian women to stop waiting passively and actively look for partners. They warn that many men claim faith without living it, so watch what they do, not what they say. Volunteering at places like Habitat for Humanity puts you around men who actually live their values.
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Rea said, as a Christian believer, how do you recommend going about dating? I always tell my Christian ladies.
You'Re.
Gonna have to lean in. You're gonna have to really do it. A lot. A lot of Christian girls are just, like, waiting for God to bring him. And I think it's cute.
I love it.
I'm saying this as someone who grew.
Up in the church myself, so I don't want you to think I'm like, on. On the teachings.
But in 2024, you're gonna have to work. You're gonna have to create your love life. You can't wait on it. Are you going to be waiting for the rest of your life? And if you don't believe me, talk to those elders, those elder women in.
The church who still don't have a man because they still waiting on God to bring him one.
And that's no shade. It's all tea.
Someone said, been waiting on God for 31 years.
The other thing is, then some of the Christian girls, y' all start gagging when the boys say, I'm a Christian. I don't care if he says if he's a Christian or not. Most of these Christian guys are not Christians. Most of these Christian guys go to church on Easter and think that they're doing the Lord's work, honey.
That many of them don't walk in the faith and don't have the value.
System that's aligned with it. So I want you, when he says he's Christian, one in one ear, out the other.
Girl.
Yeah, we got to see how he acts.
Yeah.
And the other thing I tell the Christian girls, a lot of girls are like, oh, my God. People tell the Christian girls, oh, go to the church to find your guy.
Don't go to the church to find your guy.
Girl.
Volunteer.
Habitat for Humanity. Girl, feed the unhoused.
Whatever you need to do. Girl tutor Boys and girls club.
