Anwar White advises Black women to watch how a white man treats you under pressure. Does he stand up for you against his family, a rude waitress, racial hostility? If he won't defend you, the relationship won't work.
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KK said, yeah, I think the white family will lynch me. Here's the thing. When you are being courted by a white man, you have to be, you have to evaluate the way that he advocates for you and protects you. Okay? This is really important because he not as a black woman and you all already know like every day people are coming for you, right? And if he is your boyfriend, he's gonna have to take, he's gonna have to protect you from a lot of that, including his own family. So does he stand on the street side when you're walking? When some waitress tries to be smart with you, does he cut it off in a minute, right? Does he advocate? Does he stand up for you? These are the things that you have to look out for when you're dating a white guy. And if he doesn't, it's not going to work. Yeah.