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How do you evaluate your feelings?

Name: How do you evaluate your feelings?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:40.440154
Duration: 34 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short advice clip (YouTube) by Anwar White on evaluating romantic attraction. The speaker advises only to "wait it out" if attraction increases with each…

7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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Short advice clip (YouTube) by Anwar White on evaluating romantic attraction. The speaker advises only to "wait it out" if attraction increases with each date; a measured 40% attraction is considered insufficient and the speaker recommends aiming for closer to ~70%. If attraction remains stagnant for about three to four months, the speaker suggests moving on.

Questions this video answers

40%

Around 70%

About three to four months

Someone said I'm only attracted 40% attracted to him. All right, girl. I'm glad that you got the percentage, but he is really good for me. Should I wait it out? You should only wait it out if the attraction is actually increasing with every date. Even if it's a little bit. If it staying stagnant over three to four months, weeks, probably need to let it go. 40 is not enough. It's got to be closer to around 70%.