Anwar White says women attract men at extremes when they operate from masculine energy. Many women of color were socialized into masculine energy, so finding a balanced man starts with cultivating more feminine energy in yourself.
Elevated Vibes said, I was into an alpha man, but I found him emotionally unappealing. How do you find a man with balance? By being a woman with balance. So many women, especially women of color, are actually in their masculine energy based on the way that they were raised and based on how society treats them. No shade. So they have to be in their masculine. And so often what happens is that they will be in their masculine energy in their love life. And what that means is that they will either attract hyper feminized men or hyper masculine men to make them and force them to feel feminine. And girl, that's not a recipe for success. So many of us will be hyper focused on alpha men. So what what I try to do in my program is help to kind of recalibrate those energies so that they're both in.
Kind of healthy levels.
So it's really about doing that work, because.
That'S the thing. You're probably in your masculine energy. So the alpha guys that you're attracting are actually hyper masculine or toxic masculine, and that's scary.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
