Short monologue-style advice on flirting and dating where the speaker encourages a playful, open approach rather than defensive shutting-down. Uses the matador/bull metaphor and recommends practicing flirting online so it feels natural.
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So like I've always said if you come to my previous lives I always say you want to be.
You want to be like.
A lot of us are playing defense in dating and with men and we're holding up a shield as to say no, no, no, don't, don't talk to me. I'm scared of you. And what you want to do is you want to be like a matador and these men are bulls and you just like olay. I don't have a sweatshirt but like and let them run through. Yeah, that's what's, that's what's important here.
And you get to play with them. This is why it's so that's why I always am saying like you want to be online so you can practice the flirting. Yeah. It's important for you to be in practice of it so it becomes more natural for you.