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How do you get a guy to commit?

Name: How do you get a guy to commit?
Uploaded: 2025-06-05T16:01:14+00:00
Duration: 1 min 25 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (advice) urging listeners—primarily women—to maintain personal standards in relationships: do not lower yourself to match…

5 Jun 2025 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue (advice) urging listeners—primarily women—to maintain personal standards in relationships: do not lower yourself to match someone else’s energy, avoid trying to prove yourself to men, and step away when a partner won’t meet you where you are. The speaker frames a feminine, energetic response as walking away rather than engaging in competition or ‘price wars.’

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Be here. And if he can't meet you where you are, he's out.
Don't match anyone's energy except for the energy of your highest self.
Please.
Like.
You want to stoop down to someone's level.
Girl. No, Shade, don't do that. That's not you. Yeah.
No, we don't do that. And that is. So this is the thing. I want to talk about this, because this is very important. A lot of us, y' all trying to prove something he's doing. You're here and he's here. When you go down to his level, you're trying to prove to him that you can't beat me. That I get. I'm in control here.
That's the masculine. You in competition for how. How Less of a shit you can give.
Girl. Y'. All. Y' all playing Price wars like Walmart.
You're a mess. Stay there.
And just step away. That's the feminine, energetic approach here.
Stop trying to prove things to men.
Please.
I think y' all are gonna get my blood pressure up, and I'm too young for that.