Anwar White shares dating advice for getting men to propose: flirt playfully in the first two weeks, avoid interrogating them, let them pay, and give a small gift on the third date. She draws on her own experience as a married mother.
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$20–$25
April 25, 2024
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I think a lot of you were, like, saying that you wanted to hear about how I get men. Or I used to. I'm married with children. Now I'm a suburban mother of three, so I don't do this anymore. But how do I get men to marry me or engage? Propose? So what did I do? I met a lot of men online, and then the first week or two, it was all just flirty, nothing serious. I'm just flirting, talking my ish. A lot of you guys are, like, interviewing for the Pentagon when you're dating. Don't do that, girl. That's a big D downer.
Flirt. Have fun. Because having fun and laughing is the quickest way to open a guy up. Okay.
When you are interview mode, when you're giving lawyer, interrogating him on the stand like it's the end of a Law and order episode that doesn't inspire and engender trust and safety, he's gonna feel combative with you. Okay? So first one, two weeks, it's just flirting. It's just having a good time. It's just, you know, talking your is making these men work for you. Just talking about how you like that they're a gentleman. Right. Anything that they talk about. My God, you're such a gentleman. What else? What else can you show me? Right? Give them that so that they always want to be inspired to do more for you. Yeah. Let him take you out. Don't pay for anything. Don't pay for absolutely anything. And then every time. And I did a video about this already, so I'll tell you a little bit of tea. The third date, you always want to get him, like, a small little gift. $20, $25.
Something very thoughtful that he can get for himself but would never get himself. Yeah. This will show him reciprocation that, like, you're not here to use him. Because a lot of good guys have been used in the past. So you get him a small gift. So, like, let's say he said he, you know, he is always out and about and he's always traveling. Right? So a cute gift might be like a little charger for his phone when he's out and about. Right. Thoughtful, cute. It shows that I was listening. Okay. Are you with me, ladies? Give me tea.
