Anwar White advises women to set explicit timelines for engagement, telling a partner at six months you want a proposal within a year. He claims 70 to 90 percent of surprise proposals are actually pre-discussed, and says leading with feminine energy and brief feedback works better than nagging.
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Okay, so by six months he's in love with you. And then around the six month mark you will let him know.
Oh, you know, I'm the kind of person who likes to get, you know, engaged or like I know when I want to be with my person in the first year of being with them. So you, at the six month mark, you set time expectation so now he has six months to get his shit together and then you can continue doing what you want. And then at the nine month mark you let him know, yeah, I, I probably would want, I probably want to be married by the end of the year or engaged by the end of the year.
And then he has three months to make it happen. Now I've had some people do that at the six month mark, some people do it at the nine month mark, but that's really it. But here's the thing that you need to know while you're in a relationship.
Anytime that they do something that is not great.
You give them the.
That doesn't make me feel good. Don't give the why are you doing this? And da da da da da da. That doesn't make me feel good. I'm feeling uncomfortable. I'm feeling sad about that.
Yeah, I'm disappointed.
Yeah. T said, what if they pull back? They're going to pull back at right before they get exclusive with you because they need to just like chemically speaking, they're falling in love with you and their testosterone is low. Yeah.
No, it's not about being passive. It's about leading with your feminine energy.
Yeah. That's what this is about.
So this is the thing that I want you ladies to know. You set the pace of all of your relationships. You need to tell these men exactly when you want the things and then their job is to make it happen. Forget what you see. All of these clips about these guys surprising with a proposal, this shit is fake, girl. They've talked about being engaged before. About 70, 80% of the time.
You'Ll know when the girl is really surprised. She will freak the F out. The other girls that are like, oh my God, yes. No. If it is like a real shock and a surprise, she's freaking out, she's having a heart attack, literally.
So please understand, 80, 90% of the time they've talked about it at a dinner, in bed, all of that stuff. Yeah.
And I want you to be inspired by that. The reason why I'm saying this is because some of the girls are like, okay, I'll just wait for him to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. No, girl, don't do that. Don't do that. You'll be waiting for eternity, girl.
