Anwar White questions whether the five love languages framework actually works and argues you can't force your partner to change. Instead, identify what you really need and why. If he can't meet those needs, leave.
Amber says how do you get your man to show all love languages, not just acts of service? Well, no shade, but research has said that love languages are bs. So you need, I think you need to get clear about what are your deeper relationship needs and how he can fulfill them. Right. And why you have those needs. So that's the work that we can do on our end. We can't make a man do anything. And if you're trying to do that, then you are trying to be in control of something that you will never be in control of. It's like trying to control the weather.
You can do the rain dance if you want, girl. Nothing coming out of that sky. And it's the same with a man. He's got what he's got. And your job is to see if it works for you or if it doesn't.
And if it doesn't, we got to step away.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
