Anwar White explains how to signal interest without pursuing: eye contact, smiling, waving. He distinguishes between initiating and pursuing, noting that men are expected to continue the pursuit once you've given the green light. Women historically dropped handkerchiefs as a signal.
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Miss V says, how do we give the green light without being the one that is pursuing? Girl, I. I literally answered that question already, Right? Eye contact, smile waving. Pursuing means the thing that you have to understand is that I think people are like, oh, my God, I can't do anything, or I'm going to be in the masculine energy. Even in the old days, women would drop their handkerchiefs, and that was the green light for men to talk to them. Right. It doesn't mean that they're pursuing. They're starting something, but they're not finishing it. So please understand that you can start something without pursuing a man. His job is to drive it and then start the pursuit. Yeah.