Anwar White says to test whether a man wants you for money by refusing to help financially, pay for dates, or do favors. Men after your money will leave. Look for someone with a provider mindset instead.
Vanessa said. Okay. How can I know he's not just interested in someone to help with the bills?
Well, I don't know what you're talking about. Like, I don't even know what this. What you mean when you say bills. Like, we don't know anything about that in this life. But the way that you will know some if a guy is interested in you just for your money is simply not giving him anything.
No money, don't pay for dates. Don't do favors for him. Don't do anything. And those guys will find another supply, find another loan officer.
Yeah. And don't be, don't feel guilty about that. I was having a mini conversation with a client earlier today and I was letting her know, like, yeah, there are a lot of guys that won't like that, but those guys are not in the consideration set. The guys that we're looking for, which are fewer and further between, are guys that are in a provider mindset.