How do you know if a man is into you?

Esme said. What are some real signs a man isn't into you?

If you don't hear from him for more than three days or three days or more, he's not into you. If he tells you that he's busy, he's not into you. If he's not setting up dates at least once a week, he's not into you. It's less about what he says and more about what he does. But there are things that he says that will that will give you a sense of that he's not into you. If he is texting you in the nighttime, messaging you in the night times and on the weekends, and just wants to see you during those times, he's probably not into you.